Shopping for a Cross

“If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.” — Matthew 16:24, KJV

Jesus said, “Come, take up the cross, and follow me” (Mark 10:21). Yet too often we want to shop for a cross that suits our preferences instead of accepting the self-denial and obedience involved in following Christ.

Some want a padded cross—one that is comfortable and never becomes too heavy. Others prefer a small, concealed cross that can be hidden whenever identifying openly with Christ might bring criticism or embarrassment. Still others seek a jeweled cross that serves as an attractive ornament but requires no sacrifice or separation from the world.

Authentic Christian discipleship is different. The Lord’s command to take up our cross means denying self, obeying Christ, and remaining faithful even when doing so is difficult or costly. It means placing His will above our comfort, popularity, and personal ambitions.

We must distinguish our cross of discipleship from the cross of Christ. Jesus alone died as the sinless sacrifice for our sins. We cannot add anything to His finished work, and carrying our cross does not earn salvation. Salvation is entirely by grace through faith. The believer takes up his cross because he has been saved—not in order to become saved.

The Christian life may involve sacrifice, opposition, and suffering, but Christ never abandons His own. He supplies the grace and strength needed for every burden. The same Saviour who commands us to follow Him also declares:

“For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” — Matthew 11:30, KJV

We should therefore stop shopping for a cross that fits our preferences. Let us faithfully accept the path of obedience Christ has appointed, knowing that He will be with us and provide all the grace we need.